What to Do: Schedule a dinner or coffee date and build each other up verbally. Get out your notes app and spend a few minutes writing down your own responses to the “DID YOU KNOW” statements below.

Discuss

• A character quality I admire in you is. . . (patience, diligence, sincerity, kindness, honesty, humility)
• I appreciate the simple ways you serve me by. . . (sacrificing hobbies, helping with the children, making coffee in the morning, working to provide, managing the household)
• Something I love about you is. . . (how you play with the children, your thoughtfulness, your sense of humor, how you care for others, your passion for life)
• One way I’ve seen you grow closer to God is. . . (your self-discipline, your compassion for the poor, how you pray, taking us to church, desire to read the Bible, your selflessness)
• I feel most refreshed by you when. . . (you rub my shoulders, we go shopping together, we kiss, you wink at me)